Hello readers...if you're still out there!
I realize I've not blogged for a few months, but there's not real reason other than there's been nothing to blog about.
Life, other than being single, is actually pretty good. I ran another marathon last month. While it was slow and frustrating, I did manage to finish. Work has been crazy busy and is just now starting to slow down, which is fine with me...heading into the last quarter. And a friend and I are planning a mini vaca before the end of the year.
No dates. No progress in that department. I think I'm still on eHarmony, which has been a total waste of time. I'm planning to cancel soon. I swear, I could randomly go on there once every 4 days and the SAME guys, all living an average of 400 miles away from me, are on my "match" list. Stupid. I have zero plans to start communicating with someone, for the first time, with a goal of potentially dating, who lives THAT FRICKING FAR AWAY. Ridiculous.
Match won't STOP sending me email notifications about how "he winked at you!," "he emailed you!," "he made you a favorite!" Um, really? OK. So, Match, you want me to pay you some money so I can view all these potential awesome matches, right? Um, wrong. I have not been suckered in by this yet. Ya know why? I remember when I first tried Match and did the basic part, prior to having to pay, and it told me I had "sooo many" matches. So, of course, I paid, hoping that THIS would be the time something might work. And it was all crazy, scary, unattractive (sorry, but I didn't find them attractive) guys. Waste of money.
Again, I go back to how much I abhor online dating. It sucks. Yes, people meet that way, get married, and live happy lives with each other. I do believe that. However, I maintain that it is NOT for me. It's just so awkward. And there's no way to validate anything about that person. At least if a friend sets you up, you can trust that they're not setting you up with a crazy person. I'm sure I've said this before.
Anyway, still frustrated (no surprise, there) that I'm still single, despite my very social life and seemingly being a normal person.
3 months ago